Comments on: rings http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/2009/06/23/rings/ Tue, 08 Dec 2009 14:21:36 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: fg http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/2009/06/23/rings/#comment-352 fg Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:11:38 +0000 http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/?p=765#comment-352 I'm a man and I don't wear one. And it's not so I can seem atractive to women. It's because I find it disracting to look at and how it feels on my finger also disracts. There is also the idea that I'm "taken." I don't like that and I don't think that way so I don't want to seem like I do. Not that I'm not taken in another sense with my wife. Maybe that's what the other men mean to say. Hopefully. It is a beautiful one, though, and I do wear it sometimes when my wife wants me to and when she wears hers. fg I’m a man and I don’t wear one. And it’s not so I can seem atractive to women. It’s because I find it disracting to look at and how it feels on my finger also disracts. There is also the idea that I’m “taken.” I don’t like that and I don’t think that way so I don’t want to seem like I do. Not that I’m not taken in another sense with my wife. Maybe that’s what the other men mean to say. Hopefully. It is a beautiful one, though, and I do wear it sometimes when my wife wants me to and when she wears hers. fg

]]> By: kristin http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/2009/06/23/rings/#comment-351 kristin Wed, 24 Jun 2009 01:45:31 +0000 http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/?p=765#comment-351 i have been hit by this too . . .the curious hope as one looks (with attempted casual glance), the let down when the glint appears. sometimes it just makes me feel down-right-pissy. especially when i feel the guy has been flirting with me while his hand was out of sight. but i figure, i am a catch. i have no ring. surely it is just a matter of time before i meet the dreamy eligible. and undoubtedly it will happen when i have come to a place when i stop looking. i have been trying to look with the intention of seeing NO ring. sometimes i think surely i manifest the married by EXPECTING to see the ring. but, of course, as history has proven . . .there are the married guys who don't wear the ring and you find out later thank you'd like. i have been hit by this too . . .the curious hope as one looks (with attempted casual glance), the let down when the glint appears. sometimes it just makes me feel down-right-pissy. especially when i feel the guy has been flirting with me while his hand was out of sight.

but i figure, i am a catch. i have no ring. surely it is just a matter of time before i meet the dreamy eligible. and undoubtedly it will happen when i have come to a place when i stop looking.

i have been trying to look with the intention of seeing NO ring. sometimes i think surely i manifest the married by EXPECTING to see the ring.

but, of course, as history has proven . . .there are the married guys who don’t wear the ring and you find out later thank you’d like.

]]> By: Lara http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/2009/06/23/rings/#comment-350 Lara Wed, 24 Jun 2009 01:38:06 +0000 http://aurevoirgoodbyesolong.wordpress.com/?p=765#comment-350 I've been noticing that a lot lately. That and the vanishing pool of remotely attractive men...ring or not. I’ve been noticing that a lot lately. That and the vanishing pool of remotely attractive men…ring or not.

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