I’ve needed to mark this point in my life somehow. I wanted to remember the strength I’ve tapped into as a single mother and a woman who is realizing herself more and more each week. I never thought I’d be a tattoo person. Never. But this just came to me. The image is inspired by Nikki McClure, who I wrote about awhile back. And the quote, though not exact, came to me while watching Obama’s inauguration and listening to Elizabeth Alexander’s poem, “Praise Song for the Day.” The eggs are my kids – and it has been my love for my kids that’s kept me rooted and strong through both my dad’s illness and death and my divorce. The nest is love. The nest is me. I love the image of a nest, which is made of many things to become a whole; which is seemingly weak but supports an entire family in its ingenious design; which is flexible and yet sturdy.

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June 26, 2009 at 5:32 pm
shell
LOVE THIS! Congratulations! I have a nest with three bluebirds in it drawn by a dear friend and support person. It is on my arm, a symbol of me and my girls. Welcome to the tattooed mama’s club!
June 26, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Elizabeth
I just had my first tattoo done 2 weeks ago
I love that single mothers put so much time and thought into a design and symbolism that will mark this moment of growth in our lives!
Mine was inspired by the quote in Pema Chodron’s book “When Things Fall Apart” —
*Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible be found in us.*
and a scene from Lost (silly, I know) –
*You see this little hole? This moth’s just about to emerge. It’s in there right now, struggling. It’s digging it’s way through the thick hide of the cocoon. Now, I could help it – take my knife, gently widen the opening, and the moth would be free – but it would be too weak to survive. Struggle is nature’s way of strengthening it.* (John Locke ~ Lost)
I feel like I can do anything when I see it in the mirror, and I hope your ink brings you the same peace!!
June 26, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Jennifer
I wish you could post photos, women. What is yours of, Elizabeth?
June 28, 2009 at 3:56 am
Elizabeth
I have an Asian style branch with a hanging chrysalis and a half butterfly that has just emerged – on the wings I have the Chinese characters for ‘invincibility’ — here is a photo, but I don’t know if it will work: http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30352705&l=dbee4dbefd&id=1527850800
It is on my right back ribcage. I also have a number of ellipses in the design – it’s my favorite punctuation mark
I love the symbolism of you being the nest and the eggs your children, Jennifer. It gives a beautiful image of safety, family, and strength!
October 5, 2009 at 3:34 pm
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